one of them no longer talks to me (and we all know who that is) so obviously she wasn't going to respond. Removed from consideration.
one of them it wasn't her fault in the remotest slightest way, it was the product of circumstances, and she knows I forgive her. She posted publicly, not regarding it, because she's probably not considering it (because I've forgiven her, okay? not a problem in the least, and I mean this.) Special case. Removed from consideration.
Of the three remaining . . .
One of them publicly posted with username to say that I could say anything and that honesty was a good thing.
One of them publicly posted with username to say that it would make them feel bad because they'd be being judged by only one side of the story, and that they'd like it if I talked to them, but that it's my journal. And apologized for what happened.
One of them sent me a private message threatening me.
What does this say?
(Note that I'm not certain if it was serious or not. But if it wasn't, there's certainly no way I can tell.)