You definitely have no right to tell my friends or my current involvements that they shouldn't be involved with me. You also have no right to violate their privacy.
I have no respect for your actions and, at this point, no respect for you. I do not consider you a friend. I do not consider you even likable. I consider you a pompous arrogant self-obsessed egotistical boor. You refuse to admit you could ever be mistaken, even when it's blindingly obvious to everyone around you that you have no idea what you're talking about. You refuse to admit that you are not perfect in every way. You seem to believe you're the authority on every subject. You are not.
I am not interested in ever talking with you again. I've left you unbanned from my journal so that you can reply to this if you wish, though I will not reply to that.
To put it simply: You are a jerk. Life is too short for me to spend any of it thinking about you.