I should point out, though, that I skewed the results accidentally, and maybe they don't count.
See, I was trying to update Trillian to version 3.0. And I was fiddling with my user list and, well, accidentally deleted the whole shebang.
In the process of trying to restore it, I restored a *really old* one - like, two years ago - before remembering I had a newer one on my other computer. And it sent out add-requests to all the people I'd had on ICQ before. Including ex-girlfriend.
So she sent me a message, asking if I was trying to get in contact with her, and I said, no, sorry, I screwed up and ICQ sent stuff out, and she apologized for the telekinesis incident and asked if I wanted to be friends with her again, and I said (honestly) I wasn't sure, and did *she* want to be friends again . . .
. . . and she said, no, she wasn't really interested in talking to me, and this would definitely be the end of it.
And now she's commented on my livejournal. So maybe it *does* count!
Should Zorba Demand That She Make Up Her Damn Mind Already
RUN FOR THE HILLS, BOY
(Update: In the amount of time it took me to write this entry she commented on my next-to-most-recent entry as well.)