how many times do people hear that? or say that?
is it really accurate?
More than one person I know is going out with someone who just plain isn't
good for them - that hurts them in some way, or doesn't feel for them, or
But that other person also helps them, in one way or another . . .
what do you do - tell them to drop their source of healing in return for
the long-term benefits, or just live with the knowledge that they're being